In some ways, funerals have stayed pretty much the same for many centuries, even millennia. In others, they've changed, adopting new technologies to make the services even more moving, celebratory or personal.
Take funeral videos. These are now a common sight at funerals. They can be a powerful way of showing still and moving images from a person's life and making the audience feel like they're watching a life unfold.
If you do show a video at a funeral, you will probably want to include some music. It's not essential – you can have a silent video if you like. But often, people find that music enhances the video.
And equally often, people find instrumental music (music without singing) to be most appropriate. This lets people focus on the images and videos rather than lyrics.
At Treasured Moments, we firmly believe that where death is concerned, there are no rules about what you should and should not do. People process grief in different ways. When arranging a funeral, it's up to you to decide what's best for the audience and the memory of the person who has died.
That said, the period following someone's death can be emotionally fraught. Moreover, you may find that arranging a funeral is a very involved task with lots of mini-tasks to complete. This means that people often look for direction.
For that reason, we've put together this guide to choosing instrumental music for a funeral video. We hope it helps you pick the right piece of music to celebrate the life of the person you're mourning.
How to choose
When choosing a piece of instrumental music for a funeral video, it can help to think about who it's for. Usually, it's for the person who has died and for the audience.
This means you'll usually want to choose a piece of music that reflects the personality or tastes of the person who has died. It also means you should choose a piece of music that creates a suitable mood, whether it's celebratory or mourning.
It can help to think about the music the person who died used to listen to. Was there a song they always sang around the house? What music is in their CD and record collection or on their online playlists?
It can also help to think about what the funeral video will show. You might be able to choose a piece of music that reflects a particular time in a person's life, for example.
Finally, asking for help can be a good idea. Ask friends, families and colleagues for suggestions. This can help you make a decision at a difficult time.
What to choose
Once you've thought about the kind of music you want for your funeral video, you need to choose a particular piece of music. This can be difficult, partly because there are just so many options available.
Searching playlists online, for instance, can give you good ideas – but it can also overwhelm you with choices. Here, then, are five pieces of instrumental music to get you started.
1. Oscar Peterson: "Hymn to Freedom"
Taken from his 1963 album Night Train, jazz pianist Oscar Peterson's composition "Hymn to Freedom" is a possible choice for the funeral video of a jazz lover.
Impressively, Peterson wrote this stirring yet gentle piece on the spot. He called it "Hymn to Freedom" as a tribute to Martin Luther King. Over the years, it became an unofficial anthem of the Civil Rights Movement in the USA.
2. J.S. Bach: "Jesu, Joy of Man's Desiring"
This piece by Bach is often played at weddings and Christian festivals. But it also has a quiet, flowing dignity that makes it suitable for funerals.
"Jesu, Joy of Man's Desiring" is available in a variety of versions, including choir, organ and piano. The version we've linked here is Myra Hess's transcription, which gave the German-language piece its English name.
3. Erik Satie: "Gymnopédie No. 1"
The first of French composer Erik Satie's Gymnopédies is a gentle, bobbing waltz that's both peaceful and melancholy. It's beloved by classical lovers and casual listeners alike.
4. Sigur Rós: "Untitled #3 (Samskeyti)"
Many popular indie songs are suitable for funerals – but most of them have words. "Untitled #3 (Samskeyti)" by Icelandic indie band Sigur Rós, however, is purely instrumental and has a yearning, building quality that's often looked for in funeral music.
5. Theme from Last of the Summer Wine
Music at a funeral isn't just about the music taste of the person who died. Nor is it just about the mood you want to create. It can also relate to something else about the person – their favourite TV show, for instance, or their favourite sport.
The classic theme from BBC sitcom
Last of the Summer Wine is a great example. It's short, it's bittersweet and it tells you something about the person whose life you're remembering.
Other considerations
Most churches and crematoria allow contemporary music. If they do, they should have a licence letting them do so. If they don't, you'll need to play music that's royalty-free.
This only applies to funerals open to the public. This is because they stop being private functions and become public events that have to follow particular rules.
If you arranged a home burial, for instance, with just friends and family attending, you wouldn't need a license to play music.
It's not an issue that comes up often, but it is worth being aware of. The main thing is to ask the cemetery or crematorium beforehand to avoid any misunderstanding.
If you do need to play royalty-free music, there are many online catalogues you can search through. One example is the
YouTube Audio Library.
How Treasured Moments can help
At Treasured Moments, we create bespoke online memorials – including beautiful narrated videos you can show at the funeral. If you'd like to find out more, explore our
funeral video services or
get in touch with our friendly UK team.
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